Let Me Go (Miss Me But Let Me Go) by Christina Rossetti

Let Me Go (Miss Me But Let Me Go)

When I come to the end of the road
And the sun has set for me
I want no rites in a gloom filled room
Why cry for a soul set free?

Miss me a little – but not for long
And not with your head bowed low
Remember the love that we once shared
Miss me – but let me go.

For this is a journey that we must all take
And each must go alone.
It’s all part of the Master’s plan
A step on the road to home.

When you are lonely and sick at heart
Go to the friends we know
And bury your sorrows in doing good deeds
Miss me – but let me go.

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The poem asks loved ones not to grieve excessively but to remember the love shared and allow the departed soul peace. It frames death as a natural journey (‘part of the Master’s plan’) and encourages the bereaved to find solace in friendship and good deeds.

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